The Unlock
Alright, let’s talk.
You’ve got the drive. You’ve got the skills. But your business still feels… stuck.
That’s not a strategy problem. It’s a story problem.
You’ve been running your business on an outdated script — a silent set of lies that sound like facts:
“I’m not ready yet.”
“I’m not qualified enough.”
“I’ll fail like last time.”
Those aren’t harmless thoughts; they’re invisible cages built from fear, shame, and self-doubt. And until you expose them, your potential stays locked behind those bars.
Here’s the truth: business success is 80% psychology and 20% mechanics. You can learn every tactic in the world, but if your belief system is infected, the results will always lag behind your potential.
This week, we’re taking a deeper look at how to break free — not with fluffy affirmations, but with a practical, Spirit-led process for rewiring your mindset.
The Key Move
Three Steps to Dismantle the Lies That Limit You
1. Find the Lie
You can’t fight what you haven’t named.
Limiting beliefs hide behind “logic.” They sound rational — “I just need more experience” — but they’re spiritual fear in disguise.
Try this:
Write down one goal you’ve been procrastinating on.
Then list every reason you think it’s not possible.
Those reasons? That’s your belief system talking.
Take one of those thoughts and ask “Why?” five times.
By the fifth “why,” you’ll uncover the root fear. That’s the lie you need to confront.
🧠 Example: “I can’t raise my prices.” → “Why?” → “Because people won’t pay.” → “Why?” → “Because I’m not as good as them.” → There it is.
2. Put the Lie on Trial
Every belief is a story. It’s time to cross-examine the storyteller.
Ask yourself:
Is this belief factually true — or emotionally familiar?
What evidence proves the opposite?
How has this belief been “protecting” me from risk?
What is it costing me to keep it?
Then reframe it into what I call a Bridge Belief — a thought rooted in truth and supported by scripture.
Example: “I’m too young to lead” → “God used David before Goliath ever did.”
📖 “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” — Proverbs 4:23
What fills your heart flows through your habits. If your heart is filled with lies, your business will bear their fruit.
3. Starve the Lie With Action
Faith isn’t belief alone — it’s belief in motion.
The only way to break a false belief is to collect evidence that contradicts it.
Take one small, scary action that challenges the lie.
Afraid of rejection? Send one pitch.
Struggle with perfectionism? Launch the “imperfect” version.
Think you must do everything yourself? Delegate one task this week.
Each act of obedience rewires your mind with truth. Because confidence doesn’t come before action — faith does.
The City Gate
Reflection Questions:
What belief has been quietly limiting me this season?
What truth from God’s Word replaces that lie?
What one action will I take this week to prove that truth in motion?
The Key Ring
📖 “You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” — John 8:32
Freedom doesn’t come from motivation. It comes from revelation — seeing what’s been keeping you small and choosing to believe differently.
Your Next Step
This newsletter gave you the 3-step framework.
But in this week’s YouTube episode, I walk you through real examples and biblical insights that show how to reprogram your mindset for lasting growth.
🎙️ Listen Now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2360013/episodes/17966834
🎥 Watch at 9AM PDT: “How to Dismantle Limiting Beliefs for Business Growth” → [YouTube Link]
You’ll learn:
The root causes of imposter syndrome.
How fear disguises itself as logic.
And how to train your faith to lead your business, not your feelings.
Grateful you’re here.
Turn the key. Build what lasts.
— Christian Graham
Founder, Merakairos Media & The MK LAB